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Psychotherapy is a form of mental health treatment where you and a therapist come together to explore who you are, what you have been through, and what you may need at this time of your life.

Through this experience, you may cultivate new coping strategies that increase functioning at work, at home, and/or at school. You might find that some of the challenges of the past begin to lift, and that you are able to tolerate a wider variety of feelings and emotions that were once unbearable. In addition, you may have a better relationship with yourself and more regulated, connected relationships with other important people in your life.

We’ll use time in session to have conversations, at your own pace, that explore what is going on in your life and within yourself. Naturally, you have to feel safe enough to open up in the first place, which is why I feel progress is highly dependent on good communication, trust, empathy, and authenticity in the therapeutic relationship. I may use a number of different techniques and interventions to help you reach your goals, dependent on how appropriate they are to supporting your unique needs. As a therapist, I’m not here to give you instructions or be a life coach, but I am here to walk alongside you, provide guidance and insights, and help you develop a feeling of mastery over both body and mind.

You may find yourself concerned in sharing openly about certain topics or experiences. Everything that is said within a therapy session is protected and confidential information under HIPAA law, meaning I cannot openly share things about you to other people except for emergency cases (danger to self or others, abuse or neglect, court orders, etc.). There may be times when you are not feeling compatible with a therapist, and you are within every right to exit treatment to connect with a professional more aligned with the care you may need.

You don’t have to be unwell to be in therapy. There is nothing wrong with you because you want to be in therapy. Your commitment to find inner peace is much more reflective of who you are as a person, rather than what you have been surviving. I hope that therapy can become a reliable source of support in your life.

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Individual therapy with me costs $100 per session. I provide a sliding scale if the flat fee is unaffordable, so long as I have the capacity to do so on my caseload. At this time, I am able to accept sliding scale clients. I offer weekly and biweekly appointment schedules. Each session typically lasts between 50-60 minutes.

Everybody is different, and finding a good fit with a therapist can be challenging. Below is information about the mental health presentations I typically work with, along with interventions that may be used during the course of treatment. I also offer a 15 minute free phone consultation if you are looking for further information about myself, my practice, or how I may be able to best support you.

If we feel comfortable to begin working together, our next steps will be to get you added onto my caseload, have you complete some intake documents, and schedule our first appointment together. Intake documents include some policy and consent forms along with a questionnaire asking you about yourself, your life, and your mental health; this all together can take anywhere between 10-60 minutes. We will use our first appointment to get to know each other, identify your goals for treatment, discuss boundaries and expectations of the therapeutic relationship, and begin to explore your concerns.

  • Trauma happens when something distressing, overwhelming, or frightening shakes your sense of safety. These events may include abuse, neglect, violence, loss, combat, displacement, exposure to something distressing, and more. Trauma impacts how your body and brain respond to the world, which can leave you feeling on edge, disconnected, or stuck in painful patterns. You might also experience flashbacks, intense anxiety, difficulty in trusting others, or feeling emotionally numb, to such an extent that it disrupts your daily life and general functioning. Living with trauma can feel exhausting and isolating, but it’s important to know you’re not alone.

    Healing from trauma is a journey, not a quick fix. Though it can feel permanent, trauma’s impact can soften over time. It IS possible to reconnect with your body, regulate overwhelming emotions, and reclaim your sense of safety and control, to live in a way that is removed from the impacts of trauma. You have survived so much already and with care and patience, you can find a path toward greater peace, resilience, and enthusiasm for the future.

  • Sometimes, people turn to alcohol, drugs, or other substances as a coping mechanism. With continued use, disconnection from self and others, physical or emotional issues, or difficulties in functioning may occur. Addiction restructures how our brains work, particularly through cravings, withdrawal, and impulsive patterns, to keep us feeling trapped in cycles. Change is possible, and therapy may help you honor your motivations to quit, cope in ways more conducive to your needs and goals, and live a life not dominated by substances.

  • Grief can show up in so many ways: sadness, anger, numbness, guilt, even moments of relief or confusion. Whether you've lost a loved one, a relationship, a sense of identity, or something else meaningful, grief can shake your whole world. It’s not something to get over, but it is something we learn to carry in our own time and in our own way. Your grief process is natural and authentic, and you don’t have to navigate them alone. Healing doesn’t mean forgetting, it means finding a way to live with loss while staying connected to what matters most.

  • Navigating life as a member of the LGBTQIA2S+ community can come with its own unique challenges. Many people experience conflicts around their gender identity or sexual orientation, like questions about who they are, fears about acceptance, feelings of guilt or shame, or pressure to fit into societal expectations. Additionally, discrimination, rejection, and misunderstanding from family, friends, or society can form painful wounds and impacts to well-being. It’s important to recognize that your identity is valid, your experiences are real, and it is okay to be who you want to be. Therapy can be a safe, affirming space to work through conflicts, explore complex feelings, and build up confidence and comfort in your own skin.

  • Anxiety is a feeling of worry, tension, or unease, even when nothing may seem wrong on the outside. Some symptoms include panic, racing thoughts, trouble with sleeping, poor focus or concentration, tension, or restlessness. It may be tied to specific fears, or social situations, or maybe it’s just always there. Anxiety can be helpful in responding to stress or danger, but too much can lead to adverse mental and physical effects. Reducing anxiety involves reteaching your body and mind calmness, safety, and how to respond differently moving forward.

  • Depression can feel like a heavy weight that makes it hard to find joy, motivation, or energy in your world. It might show up as poor mood, loss of interest in things you used to care about, fatigue, changes in sleep or appetite, feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness, or suicidal thinking. Our usual responsibilities and commitments may feel overwhelming, and it’s common to feel stuck in our sadness. Though it can feel all-consuming, depression can lift through patience, compassion, grace, and reconnecting with a sense of hope.

  • Bipolar disorders involve shifts in mood that can feel intense and unpredictable. A person may experience very high energy or increased risky behaviors in one episode, then deep sadness or loss of pleasure in another episode. Cycling between these episodes can happen within days for some, and for others it may be weeks or even months. This can make it hard for us to feel in control, but it is still possible to find a balance within ourselves and develop new ways of living that make these shifts feel more manageable.

  • Whether with a partner, family member, or friend, relationship conflicts can bring up intense feelings and distress, and these struggles can feel confusing and draining. Sometimes past wounds, misunderstandings, or experiences of abuse make it hard to connect or communicate clearly. You may find yourself unsure of how to move forward or find peace within your relationships, but it is still possible to heal old wounds, improve communication, and build healthier connections that feel safer and more fulfilling.

  • Sex and intimacy are important parts of many people’s lives, but they can also bring up feelings of vulnerability, confusion, or pain. Past trauma or relationship challenges may affect your ability to feel safe, connected, or fully present in intimate moments. These difficulties are common and nothing to be ashamed of, and working to resolve them can be such an empowering experience. With time and support, it’s possible to rebuild trust in yourself and others, and experience intimacy in new, protective, and meaningful ways.

  • Struggles with self-esteem and identity can make you question your worth or who you really are. Do you ever feel unsure, not good enough, or disconnected from your true self? These feelings can come from past experiences, trauma, or ongoing challenges, and they can impact how you relate to yourself and others. It’s normal to carry harsh inner critics or feel like you have to hide parts of yourself to be accepted. But you can learn to embrace your true self and build a sense of worth that feels authentic and steadfast.

  • Personality disorders can show up as patterns of thinking, feeling, and relating to others that feel intense, confusing, or hard to manage. These ways of being often develop as adaptations and survival mechanisms to early trauma, neglect, or disruptions in childhood. While they can create challenges in relationships and daily life, they reflect your strength and resiliency in the face of hardship at the same time. Therapy may help to guide these adaptations to be more flexible, more fulfilling, and aligned with your current circumstances.

  • Stress is a natural response to life’s challenges, but our minds and bodies can only take so much of it, especially when it feels constant or overwhelming. Everyone experiences stress differently: sometimes it shows up as tension, irritability, or trouble concentrating. Learning healthy coping skills, both to keep you regulated in stressful periods and decompress outside of them, can help you regulate stress more effectively and make it easier to navigate difficult moments with a regained sense of control.

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  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an approach that helps you understand and heal the different sides, aspects, or “parts” within yourself. They have their own feelings, beliefs, and roles; they might carry pain or fear from past experiences, others might work hard to protect you and keep that pain locked away. Although these parts can cause disruption and inner conflict, none of them are bad or evil because they’re just doing what they’ve learned to do for so long: helping you survive. In IFS, we embody curiosity and compassion so that our inner parts can feel heard and understood. We unburden our wounded parts, restore a sense of trust, and help our internal systems find a more integrated balance. And through this process, many people discover greater self-awareness, emotional freedom, and a deeper sense of peace.

  • Inner Child Therapy is another parts-based approach that addresses unmet childhood needs and emotional wounds that have been carried into adulthood. This is a perspective that allows us to build a new kind of relationship with a childlike part that has been deeply hurt in the past, who may need more safety, trust, authentic care, and reparenting to truly heal. Through creative and profound exercises, we examine and enhance the bond between our Inner Child and Inner Adult.

  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) helps people heal from trauma by exploring how their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors connect and influence each other. It offers practical tools to safely process painful memories, reduce distressing emotions, challenge distorted ways of thinking, and develop healthier coping strategies.

  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a skill-based therapy designed to help people improve the management of intense emotions, their relationships, the capacity to tolerate distress, and overall resiliency. It focuses on balancing the acceptance of your circumstances with the motivation to make positive changes.

  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) combines mindfulness practices with cognitive therapy to help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings without getting caught up in them. By noticing thought patterns that may lead to distress along with breaking free from these cycles or spirals, we can cultivate calm and clarity in everyday life.

  • Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET) helps you tell your life story in a safe and structured way. This process helps organize traumatic memories, reducing their emotional intensity and making them easier to understand. By carefully recounting both difficult and positive experiences, you create a clear narrative that honors your experiences and strengthens your sense of identity.

  • Strength-Based Therapy focuses on recognizing and building upon your existing strengths, talents, and resources to create positive change in your life. Rather than concentrating solely on problems or difficulties, this approach encourages you to see your resilience, skills, and past successes as important tools for healing, growth, and empowerment.

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on developing greater psychological flexibility by teaching you to accept difficult thoughts and feelings rather than struggling against them. ACT encourages you to notice these moments with openness and kindness while also guiding you to clarify your values and take meaningful actions to support them.

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